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John R. Passarini Ed.D.
Disney Outstanding Teacher of the
Year, 2003
“When the student is ready, the
teacher will appear.” Author Unknown
Set goals, love what you do, stay
focused, and pursue your dreams with passion and
perseverance. Never quit no matter how many obstacles
challenge you.
I grew up in a bi-lingual home that had
lots of love, lots of support, good food, but few books. My
mother Dorina was born in Italy and was able to attend school
only through the third grade. My father Adolpho was born with
cerebral palsy, and contracted polio at age 6. Because of his
physical challenges and his learning challenges, my father
graduated from high school when he was 20 years old. He never
once complained. My parents taught me how to be a good person
and how to love life. However, language skills, especially my
reading skills were very poor. In 1955 I repeated the second
grade and remember feeling extremely disappointed, and
confused. Nobody ever explained to me why I repeated, and for
several years I felt sad and self-conscious. Despite my
challenges and disappointments I maintained a positive
attitude and continued to think about my possibilities.
In 2000 I was named the Adapted Physical
Education National Teacher of the Year. In May of 2001 I
earned my Doctor of Education degree in Special Education from
Boston University. In 2003, from a pool of 185,000
nominations, I was named Disney’s Most Outstanding Teacher of
the Year. What inspired me to survive my academic challenges
and reach the top of my profession? My strong athletic skills
and my good social skills carried me through elementary
school. I was embarrassed by my poor academic skills, but I
had good self-esteem, lots of friends, and a positive
attitude. Most important, I had clear goals and a strong
desire to be successful and to help people. My academic
struggles continued in Junior High school until I met Warren
E. Priest. Warren was an English and Social Studies teacher
who recognized my potential and appreciated my desire to
improve my academic skills. When I met Warren I was “ready”
to learn. Warren gave me extra spelling tests. He gave me
extra writing assignments then took out the dreaded red pen to
make corrections. My papers gradually went from a sea of red,
to very few corrections.
At Newton South High School my reading
skills remained challenging so I read my assignments 3 and 4
times. Warren taught me study skills that helped me break
down and manage large amounts of information. I continued to
have Warren test me for spelling long after it was required.
I can’t imagine anyone loving high school more than I did.
With a clear mental picture of what I wanted to achieve, I was
able to stay focused and achieve my goals and more. In
addition to being elected to the National Honor Society, I was
elected captain of three sports. At 5 ft. 9 inches and 175
lbs., I was not an imposing sports figure. However, with the
same desire and determination that helped me overcome many
academic obstacles, I played sports with the same passion,
perseverance, and resolve that I had for my studies. I have a
strong kinesthetic intelligence. I love physical contact. I
love competition and good sportsmanship. As a result of my
efforts, I became a Boston Globe first team All-Scholastic
Fullback; I won the New England Wrestling Championship in
the165 lb. weight class; and I was invited to a tryout with
the New York Yankees. However, one of the proudest moments of
my life was winning the Boys Senior Cup at graduation
It was at the University of Connecticut
that I met the late Dr. Hollis Fait. Dr. Fait was a prolific
writer with many scholarly papers and several books on the
subject of adapted physical education. Most important, he was
passionate about children with disabilities, especially
children with mental retardation. He was a beautiful blend
of academics and love. I remember vividly traveling with Dr.
Fait to the Mansfield Training School, an institution for
individuals with mental retardation. When Dr. Fait entered
the children’s ward, he was tackled by nearly 20 excited and
happy children. Even the children who were blind found their
way to Dr. Fait. They laughed, they kissed him, he tickled
them, he laughed, and I was in awe. As he rolled on the floor
and played with these children I can remember thinking,” What
a wonderful man, and I want to be just like him.” I believe I
became a teacher because of Warren. I believe I became an
adapted physical educator because of my father’s condition. I
believe it was Dr. Fait who taught me how to truly love and
enjoy teaching, children with disabling conditions. Dr. Fait
reached into my soul and touched the very essence of my
spirit.
During my first semester at UConn I achieved a 2.85 grade
point score and was awarded a scholarship. One of the
happiest moments of my life was telling my parents they did
not have to pay for my college education. My mother cried.
The goals I set, my ability to love what I do and my ability
to remain focused, my innate desire to be successful and help
others, and my passion and perseverance literally paid off at
the University of Connecticut. I played football and wrestled
for all four years at UConn. I achieved Dean’s List status my
junior and senior years and finished with a 2.95 quality point
average. It was now time to begin my career.
In
1970, I was hired to teach physical education at the
elementary and junior high school level in Waltham
Massachusetts. I was also hired to start a wrestling program
at Waltham High School. It was in Waltham that I learned many
sound teaching skills and made many friends. Some of the
families I worked with remain my closest friends today. It
was in Waltham that I met my wife Gloria. We have three
outstanding sons, John, Tom, and Michael.
My
life changed forever in September of 1988 when I began
teaching in Wayland Massachusetts and met Katie Lynch. Katie
was born with a connective tissue disorder. She was 28 inches
tall and her arms were 7 inches long. Although Katie was
capable of walking for short distances with the assistance of
a custom built “Mini” walker, she used a motorized wheelchair
for the majority of her mobility. In 1990, Katie and I worked
6 months to prepare for her version of the Walk for Hunger.
She collected pledges that sponsored her by the foot instead
of by the mile. She walked 200 feet and raised $1,700.00.
When Katie graduated from Wayland High School she surprised
her parents by walking across the stage to receive her
diploma. We worked 3 months to prepare for that event. In
April of 2000, Katie walked the first 26.2 feet of the Boston
Marathon to raise $28,000.00 for Children’s Hospital in
Boston. Katie trained 6 months and sustained several injuries
in preparation for this event. I was one of Katie’s coaches
for her marathon walk. Katie survived 13 life-threatening
surgeries and was in constant pain before she died in October
of 2002. Katie was the epitome of mental toughness. For a
newspaper interview, Joan Lynch Katie’s Mother said, “To me,
Coach Pass personifies the truth that each child is worth it,
and it was his incredible faith in Katie that set her spirit
free.”
Katie taught me that we are limited only
by our thoughts, and that the human spirit has unlimited
potential. I bring this spirit to every part of my life,
including my teaching. Katie has helped me to be patient, to
be confident, to be hopeful. I believe my family, my friends,
my colleagues, and my students have benefited from my
relationship with Katie Lynch. I am a better teacher, I am a
better father, I am a better human being because I knew Katie
Lynch. I believe that Katie was packaged like she was to help
us all understand the power of the human spirit. When I think
of Katie, I feel hope and a chance for peace in a world that
at times appears chaotic. Katie nominated me for the Disney
American Teaching Award. Katie is “My little Angel.” When I
need help in my life, Katie sits on my shoulder and gives me
strength. I honestly believe that my Disney award is a gift
from Katie.
You
have met some of my heroes. It was these people and some
others that believed in me and loved me for who I am. These
and other individuals helped me sustain a deep confidence in
my abilities despite early periods of academic failure and
confusion. Warren appeared in my life when I was ready to
become a scholar. Not everyone will have a mentor like Warren,
however, if you set goals, love what you do, stay focused, and
pursue your dreams with passion and perseverance, your
teachers will appear. Good Luck.
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